Hold this thought!!*******
Real, like perfection, lies in perception.
Three people in the same room will have three different realities, they may have very similar experiences, but each person’s reality is dependent on their perception of what is real; to each of them!
“To each their own....” most think that saying is mainly in reference to: preference, opinion, or taste?!?! Well, it’s to perception as well, each of us has our own, even twins don’t have the same reality.
Why? Cause we each have individual minds, which breaks down everything we sense and feel. “I’m Real.” Ok, but according to whom?
Where is the standard between real and fake?
Ask a group of people, you will get varying degrees of the answer, people perceive what’s presented to them based on what they’ve learned, experienced, and valued in their life.
Does wearing make up make a person fake?
Does non conformity, or homosexuality, or relationship status?
Are you only real, if you stay the same, everyday; without any change?
Or does a new jacket in your wardrobe, negate all the real you had amongst the shearlings, and windbreakers?
If you tell it like it is, all the time, but then decide to censor yourself to avoid hurting someone’s feelings, is this now you faux pas moment?
Do I have to ask anymore questions?
Do you get where I’m going?
If you like the Color Green today and switch to Maroon tomorrow, you’re not fake, your perception of that color just changed.
Same with people, if you liked them last month and now are repulsed, you’re not fake and neither are they; your perception of them and your attraction changed.
You’re allowed to change and evolve on your journey, don’t let anyone who is trying to push their perception on you,
change the way you perceive yourself!! You don’t have to prove yourself to anyone!! Just be!
Reflect on your actions each day, so your perception of yourself gets stronger, cause once you perceive yourself as amazing, you’ll feel it in yourself for Real!! I’ve said it before and I’ll say it once more,
I am CyN and I’m just me; confidently!! I perceive myself as perfect in every way!! -CyN- ©️ 59192019